I epically failed to convince a certain someone to become motivated, because I didnt try in the first place. I realised I should have stuck with the thought in the back of my mind; motivation really only happens when YOU make it happen. luckily I didnt act like my gym instructor - so that certain someone should count themselves lucky.
I guess you could try to change for someone else to make them happy, but I don't think that ever lasts- I think it probably works until you realise that all you are doing and believing in is someone elses idea of you.......... So if anyone is reading this struggling to understand what they are doing wrong or why things aren't working for them, I reckon they should go out and just do something for themselves.
That was my little motivational speech for today.
Now onto something really interesting.. Last night I stayed sober while my lovely friends got drunk and probably had a really good time. I was jealous. It was sooo good to wake up fresh though... I went to lollipops playground , for those that dont know what this is- it is a playground that enables 1000s of little kids go feral. I cant stand kids (except for my own brother) so i wasnt expecting it to be the funnest of times. But for 3 mins of my morning I seriously acted like a child and it felt good. I dont really do that anymore, but realise lifes to short for seriousness all of the time. Soooo to add on to my advice above I think you should not only do things for yourself but also act like a child sometimes!
Staying in tonight, woooooo.
Big thanks to those who have said good things about the blog and challenge (you know who you are) honestly appriciate it xxx
I guess you could try to change for someone else to make them happy, but I don't think that ever lasts- I think it probably works until you realise that all you are doing and believing in is someone elses idea of you.......... So if anyone is reading this struggling to understand what they are doing wrong or why things aren't working for them, I reckon they should go out and just do something for themselves.
That was my little motivational speech for today.
Now onto something really interesting.. Last night I stayed sober while my lovely friends got drunk and probably had a really good time. I was jealous. It was sooo good to wake up fresh though... I went to lollipops playground , for those that dont know what this is- it is a playground that enables 1000s of little kids go feral. I cant stand kids (except for my own brother) so i wasnt expecting it to be the funnest of times. But for 3 mins of my morning I seriously acted like a child and it felt good. I dont really do that anymore, but realise lifes to short for seriousness all of the time. Soooo to add on to my advice above I think you should not only do things for yourself but also act like a child sometimes!
Staying in tonight, woooooo.
Big thanks to those who have said good things about the blog and challenge (you know who you are) honestly appriciate it xxx
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We all have our inner child whithin it's just a matter of letting go and giving in :)
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