Monday, May 9, 2011

27. love, life and beautiful girls


Wow, two months passed on Friday and to say I gave up drinking is an understatement. So once again I failed you! The truth is, I don’t really care about drinking. The truth is, I just like to write...

A lot has happened in the last two weeks. I moved into a new place, scored myself a beautiful new job and in a few months will be relocating to Perth with all of my incredibly cool workmates. I got my car back and it looks better than ever, I am out of immediate debt and I can finally breath again all the while thinking that life is just too easy... when a month ago I was in fact praying for it to not be so hard on me.

The point of this random mumbling is to remind you that when everything feels just too damn hard... it’s probably because is, life probably hates you and wants you to fail so you can be bitter and angry at the world.

But you don’t have to be, you just need to hold on and keep telling it to fck off with a huge smile on your face...life will then realise you don’t care so much about what its throwing at you, and the bad luck of it all will move on to someone else.

This weekend I witnessed a wedding and a person realise she was better off without someone that wasn’t treating her right. I felt incredibly happy for both of these people..  The bride looked amazing and brought a tear to my eye, and the friend spoke out with confidence and put herself first.

I have no doubt that both of these people will be extremely happy in the months and years to come. It won’t be all bliss, all of the time, but I have every confidence that these women are incredibly smart, intelligent and a perfect example of why women kick ass and can do/become anything they want to be.

I hope that many more women try to wear such confidence and inner beauty on their sleeves. So the whole world can see just what we are made of and in return think twice before throwing unwanted objects and bad luck at us.